All of us have met someone who was drop dead gorgeous to later find out that they were not at all who we were looking for. Let’s be for real. We all like having someone who is attractive on our arm. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with that, but when it comes to finding that special someone who we intend to spend the rest of our lives with, looks should not be the beginning and end of our relationship criteria. As I have said on previous occasions we’ve got to know ourselves prior to making that selection. We have got to know our likes, dislikes, needs, things we can truly learn to live with, things we clearly know we will not tolerate and especially those that we deep down within know that will totally break the deal. You see there are those things that we ignore just because. Are you asking me “because of what?” Don’t play games with yourself or me. You know good and well what you’ve settled for to only EXPLODE later in the relationship. Again you’ve got to get to the point where it is over whenever someone crosses the line that you have personally defined as something you totally will not tolerate. If you are honest with yourself you will admit that there were times when you ignored things “just because.” Don’t forget you chose to enter the relationship. So let us grow up a little and stop being so angry with the other person. Is it really worth our time and energy? It only precludes you from moving forward in your life. We could really be doing something more productive. I also don’t want anyone out there to beat up on him or herself for allowing this to happen. All of this is simply a part of life. If you haven’t made a mistake, then you haven’t lived. Besides you are learning how to make better choices.
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