You Don’t Have To Lose Your Manhood

One of the things I find interesting about teaching these “Eve Factor” principles to my brothers is the misconception that you’re in danger of losing your manhood if you work too hard on making your relationship successful. Nothing is farther from the truth. In fact ladies want a MALE MAN. They don’t want you to become too soft because then they’ll inadvertently have to take up some of the slack that you leave behind. She would have to handle the responsibilities that you would be waiting on her to take care of, deal with you not being willing to make a decision and things as simple as handling all of the details of a night out together and surprising her with it.  Just like one of the results of a lady “losing herself” is you also losing her, so it is when you lose your MANHOOD she also loses that part of you too. So, please understand that the object of learning to strengthen your relationship is not to suck the masculinity out of you, but to strengthen it with knowledge and experience. In fact preserving your masculinity also protects and allows her femininity to flourish. I have seen even the toughest ladies become more feminine when she has a man who handles his responsibilities and maintains his manhood, which also encompasses him embracing his inner gentleman. So while your lady wants you to be able to communicate, listen and be mindful of her, she does not want you to lose your manhood. If you do lose it you may very lose her while you think you are yet with her.